Healthy self-esteem is vital to moving forward well in life.
Losing a job or retiring can trigger feelings of doubt, insecurity as well as a dip in self-esteem. You may wonder, Am I still valuable and worthwhile?
Did you know, however, that categories, jobs or titles do not make us who we are? We are much more than that!
It’s been said that we are great spiritual beings having a physical experience. It’s also been said that this life is a testing ground for the next—the ultimate Next Level.
So what does that mean to me, Luba?, you may wonder.
Viewing life as a glass half full instead of half empty means that losses are stepping stones to new, better opportunities.
When we really hope for something that doesn’t happen right away or doesn’t happen at all, or lose something to which we’ve ascribed much meaning, we may feel sad, despondent and even begin to despair. But the truth is that this non-gain or loss happened in order for something more fitting and much better to fill the gap.
In many ways, life is like a playground. Some people will play with you, and others won’t. Some will bully you, and some will offer unexpected gifts. Sometimes, the game itself changes midstream. Adaptability works much better than rigidity, in any case.
Figuring out how and what we want to play means doing the inner, spiritual work. Figuring out who we really are and what we really want out of life.
We need to change the definitions and terms that society uses to define us. Instead of saying ‘unemployed,’ we should say ‘free to pursue dreams.’ Instead of saying ‘retired,’ we should say ‘ready for new adventures.’
We are more than outward physical, observable signs of success.
Time is the most important commodity that God gives us, and how we use it vital in aspiring to our goals.
Have you asked yourself, Who am I really?, What do I really want? and What should I focus on now?
These self-identification questions are key to determining next steps, steps that will take you to the next level.
It’s important not to go through life blindly but to walk gently with sensitivity. Take time to smell the roses! If you run, you will miss seeing the surrounding beauty. If you hurry, you won’t taste the richness of life.
Each of us is unique, as is our life destiny. No two people are created alike. Do not compare yourself with others because your path is unique.
5 Questions That Will Help You Decide What’s Next
- What do I dream to be, to have, and to do? (Write a list.)
- Where is my intuition leading me?
- Has a particular path been blocked? (If so, what else can I do?)
- What answer is forthcoming when I pray about the direction I’m to go?
- How do I feel about the path I’m choosing now?
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